Meet Rochelle
Hello, I’m Rochelle.
Through counseling, transformational intensives, retreats, and events, I create sacred spaces where women, men, couples, and ministry leaders can heal, reconnect, and move toward greater wholeness. My work integrates therapy and theology—addressing the spirit, soul, body, story, and relationships—because lasting transformation involves the whole person.
As a trauma-informed Licensed Clinical Counselor and Spiritual Director, I consider it a sacred honor to hold your story with you. Together, we seek to understand what has shaped you, tend to the places that have been wounded, and discover your most meaningful path toward hope, wellness, and abundant life.
I earned my Master’s in Counseling from The Townsend Institute, where I had the privilege of studying under Dr. John Townsend. His integration of psychology and theology, along with his emphasis on growth-oriented process groups, deeply influenced my approach. We are often wounded within relationships, but we can also experience profound healing through safe, restorative relationships—both therapeutic and communal.
Following graduate school, I completed a clinical residency focused on neurologically informed Christian counseling. My additional training includes Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), Internal Family Systems (IFS), trauma-informed growth coaching, somatic trauma therapy, and EMDR.
My own healing journey taught me that trauma does not live only in our memories. It can shape the nervous system, the body, our relationships, and even the way we experience ourselves and God. This realization led me to become certified in somatic trauma-informed therapy and to develop an approach that cares for the whole person—spirit, soul, and body.
For clients who desire it, I thoughtfully integrate spiritual formation and Christian faith into the therapeutic process. Faith is never assumed or imposed; I seek to honor each person’s goals, beliefs, and desired level of spiritual integration.
Before becoming a clinical counselor, I served as a church planter, pastoral counselor, author, Bible teacher, and ministry leader. Because I understand firsthand both the beauty and the weight of ministry, I have a deep passion for helping ministry leaders build healthy marriages, sustainable rhythms, resilient teams, and cultures that heal rather than harm.
In addition to individual and couples counseling, I lead:
Personal and couples intensives
Retreats for women, couples, and ministry leaders
Church and ministry-team intensives
Conferences, workshops, and speaking events
Leadership development and team-health experiences
Teaching on the integration of psychology, theology, trauma recovery, and spiritual formation
My additional ministry training includes Christian healing, Kairos Freedom Ministry, and Think Differently. I work with churches and ministry teams to cultivate emotional and spiritual health, relational safety, and a shared language for sustainable leadership.
I also specialize in walking alongside women recovering from betrayal trauma, emotional abuse, anxiety, depression, grief, and significant loss. These experiences can fracture a person’s sense of safety, peace, identity, and trust. Because this kind of trauma affects the whole person, healing often requires more than insight alone. My approach combines compassionate therapeutic support, nervous-system regulation, somatic practices, relational healing, and—when desired—spiritual integration to help restore what trauma has disrupted.
Outside of my work, you can often find me in a coffee shop with a book in hand, listening to music, walking along the beach, or traveling to spend time with friends. I love seeing the world—both for pleasure and for mission—and I am learning to savor a slower, more intentional pace of life. Some of my greatest joy comes from time with my twin sons, Houston and Jackson, my daughter, Holland Rose, and my son-in-law, Hunter.
I would be honored to hold your story with you. A story left untold often continues to take a toll—but when it is met with truth, compassion, and safety, it can become the beginning of healing and transformation.
To inquire about counseling, an intensive, retreat, speaking engagement, or ministry-team experience, please email frazier@mywellclinic.com.
I currently offer counseling virtually and welcome invitations to lead onsite intensives, retreats, workshops, and events for churches, ministry teams, couples, and leaders.
MY HEALING WORKBOOK
If you are working with me, you may find this GUIDE helpful in creating a rhythm of healing the body. As you will soon learn, I believe cultivating healing practices will be key to you finding the life you love.
Internal Family Systems
This video series will help those desiring to understand the science behind IFS Therapy. (CLICK HERE to watch Dr. Tori Olds teaching series on IFS.)
Internal Family Systems - Spiritual
Jenna Riemersma does a great job of helping you see IFS from a spiritual perspective. One of the most challenging parts for believers is one she names the “Spiritualizer.” Taking her IFS for Spiritual Leaders free course will help you gain understanding around this part that often looks like Holy Spirit but is rather a “wounded” part. (CLICK HERE to create a free account to watch this course.)
THE PATH TO YOU HOMEWORK
If you are working with Rochelle, you may find this PDF helpful for homework for the first few session.
LOSS INVENTORY
Ungrieved losses can keep us stuck where we are rather than moving toward where we want to be. You may be asked to complete a loss inventory for homework. You will find the file by CLICKING HERE.
THE PRACTICE OF HAVENING
Havening is one of my favorite somatic (body) practices that helps reduce cortisol and increase serotonin while alleviating triggers. CLICK HERE to follow a guided practice.
PARTS MEDITATION
I encourage clients to work on moving toward their wounded parts for integration. I often find it easier to unburden these parts in session or with a guide. Jenna Riemersma offers free guided meditations HERE.
CIRCLE OF CONCERN
A need to control should be an alarm that we don’t feel safe. A lack of safety is a nervous system issue that will need to be addressed somatically. See Havening for one practice to restore safety. CLICK HERE for the Circle of Concern.
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